| How to Powerfully Invoke Intensity in Your Relationship The Mystery behind Sending Mixed Signals |
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Tuesday, January 8, 2008
Here are some purposeful confusing signals: Be a wizard with numbers narrate her cell number beginning backwards! Ensure she knows your numbers too. But surprise surprise! Pretend to have forgotten her contact details, ask for it again. Act distant and unapproachable on a date. Look through her at times, without being rude or impolite. Pretend your mind is somewhere else. Women love to be surprised. Appear suddenly at places and times, when she least expects you. Give a bear hug, kiss her, when she is least prepared, and then move on to do something else completely different. Compliment her on her dress that day, only to change your opinion later. Basic idea is to appear inconsistent. Sometimes do things which she least expects you to do. Like going for a kid film together or dining at a restaurant, which she did not even know existed. Outbid her assumptions at every step. Such conflicting and inconsistent behavioral traits stimulate a woman, and display your erratic and mercurial temperament. But let's not do this too frequently, or she might get the impression that you are some sort of loony that she has landed up with. Act a little mad, but not totally mad. So that you emerge as an otherwise dependable and trustworthy companion. The secret behind creating magic in any dating relationship is generating a healthy blend of contradictions. Acting close as well as distant, being decisive as well as vacillating, getting romantic and suddenly playing aloof, all goes to create those magical moments, we all yearn for. Playing hide and seek so to speak, will help you not only attract women but keep them consistently attracted. The best example that comes to my mind is a tight-rope walker in a circus arena. He is extremely careful on that rope while walking, neither too fast nor too slow, because either way he falls down. If you watch closely he appears inconsistent while walking, but look closer, there is a method in his madness. Similarly, if you have tried to walk with a cup of hot coffee brimming up to the edges, you try and adjust your pace, to prevent it from splashing over your arm. You do not walk at a uniform pace; you keep adjusting it all the way till you reach your destination. Your inconsistency in the dating game, acts very much the same way, keeping the cup of passion full, without any spillage, till you reach your determined goal. This article may be re-published with appropriate attribution to the author including name and website © Copyright. Joshua Goh is dating & relationship expert. His desire is to motivate and support single men, women and couples to overcome the obstacles preventing them from attaining the loving relationships and lives they really want. For more information on up-to-date dating reviews and practical online dating tips & tricks, please visit Cupidwave.com How To Get Your Man To Pamper You? Being a man that pampers and caters to his woman. I have often heard conversations between women on this topic. Some good, but the majority being bad. Since I feel that most women are deceived on how to get their man to pamper them I decided to write this suggestive article. To your surprise there will probably be more things that you may want to avoid doing to win the favor of your man to get a chance at the "All Might Pampering". In some cases you may want to avoid doing certain things if you want to keep him comfortable with pampering you. So that would make this article good for women who are getting pampered and those who aren't. Try to keep it real with yourself and face the fact that no one owes you a foot rub, back rub, or what you may consider pampering. With women's movements and the lack of chivalry in today's society you are now being put on the level of being equal with a man. If you're the type of woman that believes in women being treated as equals, the type that holds to more older traditional values, or you maybe the type that likes to pull either card when it is convenient (This is a major don't do). All this is totally irrelevant. Both types are now being treat like equals regardless of what you may believe or hold true too. So if your feet hurts after a long days work or maybe they just hurt from doing so much walking through the park or shopping mall. Guess what? No, one owes you pampering. Communication is still the number one key. The problem I believe that most women are having is in this area. So that you can see if you are having problems with this I will first give you a few pointers on how to tell. Then we will go into some more "Don'ts" to help get you going in the right direction or to help some not run into problems and lose there quality time. If the words "Darling we need to talk." make him grunt and groan like he's in pain. If you where getting catered to but now its only upon request. You seem to feel a little like you are bugging him by asking He's told you that he's not going to do that and why he's not When you guys start to communicate it usually ends in a argument One thing you should remember is you are not going to change a person. That is something that has to happen with in and with time. Being forceful and fighting will only drive him away from the issue even more and maybe from you all together. And finding a new partner that will do the pampering. Well, I can only say "the grass may be greener on the other side, but it still has to be mowed". So when you do communicate try to keep it simple by using the OUR #1 RULE: "Speak to him as you would have him speak to you". Men feel more comfortable in conversations where they feel respected or honored. For example: you have a women who is getting her "half job foot rub" from arguments and beating him down with consent harassment. On the other hand you have a woman that is sweet and persuasive that is getting a awesome foot rub that could even lead to night out with the girls, shopping or who knows what. My woman's girlfriend said she had come home from a long days work and asked to be massaged because her back and feet where aching. The response she got was his back and feet where aching also. So of course she got upset. I feel that if she wouldn't have gotten upset she may have noticed a light bulb turn on. Remember don't be argumentative but be persuasive. What she should have replied was "I'm sorry you had a hard day too dear, Why don't we both take turns rubbing each others kinks out and listening to those CD's that we both like". If you are wanting to be catered to then you must be willing to cater to him also. Remember you are a equal now, right? First find out what he likes and how he likes it. Men love catering too. Matter fact there is not much difference between you two. You guys just handle emotions and life situations differently as well as communicate your feelings differently. But there is no difference between your struggles. Don't over do it. Try not to get into a mind frame where it is expected or not appreciated because the minute he feels it is not appreciated or this type of treatment wouldn't be given to him since you guys are equals. The pampering my go right out the door. Barking out instructions during the course of the pampering like giving instructions on how to rub your feet while he's actually doing it is a major NO, NO. This should be avoided by letting him know when you guys do discuss it. For example: "Yeah, honey when you gave me my rub that way it was really nice". Also try not to discuss catering too much. Even nice words spoken over and over are irritating. Making him feel like he owes you for the breakfast that morning or something you bought him when you went shopping yesterday is a real big turn off. That could put a major damper on the pamper parade. In some cases you may be dealing with a different case and scenario then I have described and that's ok too. I will now give you a helpful summary list that a woman can apply to win favor with her man and have a better chance at getting pampered. No one owe's you pampering You can't change anyone The grass may be greener but it still must be mowed Be persuasive and sweet, not combative and forceful Try not to give instructions on the pampering during pampering Speak to him as you would have him speak to you If I could sum it all up. I would say that the main focus from here own out needs to be in changing you and your approach to get your man to participate in the act of you guys pampering each other. Have fun out there! Singles | Personals | Online Dating If its singles, personals, or online dating. We are the best source to find that special someone. We also have a great partners directory. Bringing Elegance to Any Address: Online Gift Shopping Shopping online for a unique gift can be a rewarding experience. Traffic, parking and door dings are never an issue. You wont even need to gas up at the local filling station. Send a gift overnight across the country with just a few clicks of the mouse. 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